I listed out all the things I would want to carry in this hypothetical laptop bag, grouped by what I would want on a day-to-day basis, what I would have in a purse, and what I would need for a trip.
I then reasoned the following:
1. I would carry a purse without my laptop, but not the other way around.
2. I would carry books and papers with my laptop, but probably not without it.
3. If I traveled, I would probably need all my accessories there, but still wouldn’t carry it around wherever I was traveling, meaning I would still use my regular bag and would need to make sure I can fit all the extras in luggage.
In the end I had narrowed my criteria to a purse that had 4-7 pockets separate from the laptop requirements. Alternatively, I could go with something modular, like chain links, where I could attach or detach pockets as needed. I’ve never heard of or seen anything like that, so I’m going with the first idea.
I still couldn’t decide if I should be looking for a big purse that I could use with or without the laptop, or a messenger bag/tote that would fit a purse in it. Either way, I was resolved to the fact that I just need a more organized purse.
I discussed this with NewGirl and she explained her progression to the acceptance of purses in her lifestyle. She started with the baby purses (i.e. the training bra of purses), which is where I am now. It’s big enough for cell phone, keys, and wallet. And, in fact, my purses aren’t even big enough for those things. They’re big enough for my phone, keys, and a couple of credit cards/ID with a rubber band around them. They hold the things that don’t fit comfortably in my pockets, but aren’t big enough to carry all the things I would want to have to be prepared for the things that might come up in life (e.g. pens, screwdriver, and bandaids).
Anyway, NewGirl has since moved on to pink purses, big purses, and a designer purse. I just want to progress to acceptance and functionality (and stop there). Somehow, I feel that if I can find a purse with sufficient and efficient compartments and pockets, I can stay organized and then my life will be organized like that.
I’m reminded of an episode of Mad About You where Helen Hunt’s character and her sister get their bags swapped. By the end of the episode/day, Helen Hunt is all disheveled, drenched, and late, while her sister is composed, made up, has an umbrella, and is just prepared for life.
That’s what this bag is going to do for me.
So I consulted with Ian (with suggestions from one of his coworkers), Yenny, Squidgey, and NewGirl. At first it was getting a little out of hand. I had half a dozen sites I was actively scoping out for styles, options, and prices. And, oh, there were so many options.
Then, yesterday, after quantifying my criteria, I found it. It was like half an hour after I finished my list. It’s a big purse with 5 interior pockets, a convenient exterior pocket, a big zippered compartment, a laptop compartment, and a removable small bag/billfold. It was literally everything I was looking for and designed for the size screen I have.
It’s scheduled to arrive next week. I really hope this lives up to everything I’m picturing it to be. NewLife 3.0beta is showing a lot of promise.